"Good Guy" v.s. The Right Good Guy (The Concepts)


Hey Ladies!!!  How many of you guys got hit with the "Good Guy" statement.... "I'm a good dude. I treat you good, I don't hit on you, and etc." Tired of the Lame duck...Girl I got what you want, got what you need.... All for two payments of “Free 99”. You two can have that Tate Diggs or Denzel Washington.... Girl you get with me you’re not going have to work a day in your life.... Baby I got you! We'll have a man that will worship the ground you stand on.... Again all for "Free 99" this “Dream” can be yours and yours alone.... Payments are to be sent to “The Man of Your Dreams” Wonderland, LA 19284 1234 Dreamland Blvd…. “Come Here Girl! You mean the world to me.”

Sorry to upset you but you know this is all fictitious. "News Flash" Real Good Men know they’re good men, not being cocky or conceited, and don’t need to constantly affirm you and themselves of that… This is a fact.  Good Guys are good people in general, and not just to women.  Good Men try to live by the B.I.B.L.E. (Basic Instructions Before Leaving Earth). The question is “What is your definition of a Good Guy?” (To the ladies)… I can’t make up for your past encounters with men but I can change your perception of some men in the world… I blame the media for the demise of relationships values, men roles and women roles.  It’s like the blind leading the blind nowadays. Not to sound cliché or old fashion… but I’m just saying… R&B is the death of shivery… In my opinion… Bring back that Stevie Wonder sound…When It made people feel good to say they love each other…”Isn’t she lovely” I know that some of the music today is influenced by things in the past and music like history repeats itself but now every song just talks about the elements of love: sex which (in my opinion) is only 5% of the pie and also influences the demoralization of the “traditional” relationship. Many things define the traditional relationship but in my opinion, each party gives 100%. We don’t have to except the values of society. I said it before but a relationship is more than sex and goes beyond the physical attraction… (Keep that in mind ladies)… So what have we learned ladies… There are good men out there… the real question is what are you looking for in a man and what do you define “being a good man” as? Keep in mind as well that a Real “Good Man” is not properly exemplified but the false imagery broadcasted by media (Images may appear larger than they are)… To My ladies keep an open mind… to the women who “can’t find a Good Man” you’re looking for the wrong things, in the wrong places or for the wrong type of love… Until next time my people spread the love and Think Good Thoughts…Peace, Love and God Bless.




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