Iight I said I was going to direct my attention away from the relationship situations but… I keep seeing it everywhere I go hearing about it everywhere I go…This is for both the ladies and the men…To do better not only must we strive to do better we must also look within ourselves and put ourselves in a situation to do better…So many time I hear men complaining about how “these women are nowadays” and women complaining about how “these men are nowadays”…Change is something that is inevitable…meaning weather we want it or not…times will never be like they used to be with i.e. courting, casual dating and so forth and so on… You do have the option of how you choose a person…and that is the idea I want to shoot to you guys…
Men: Drink Some Water so You Won’t Be so Thirsty
Real rap…I hear how some brother come at women and it’s crazy…Women sense the urgency… learn how to chill… make her miss you by giving her some space… Approach her like you would want to be approached…I’m not about to teach what should be already known… I understand why some women act the way they do (not saying that it’s right as well but that explains the reason) Being a Man, I’ve been hit with all types of craziness in my young life… I used to be the one against dating…I’m still against it (because of my own stubbornness) but I have learned the positives that come from it. My personal thoughts on dating are that it prepares one for what they will and will not deal with in life. It gives one the opportunity to learn about themselves. Okay we got the Cons out of the way about the men first now for the Pros… If you are shocked, disappointed, upset, or feeling any kind of negative way about the “Black” Man (to the ladies)… Ask yourselves why? And what has and does the “Black Man” do that any other race of man can, will, or has done… We get thrown in a box and it very unfair… All men are capable of doing the same thing but yet the “Black” man O.D. on the ratchet-ness (nah ladies sorry I can’t agree on that one). Not all of us just want you for sex or out for the games… But like the ole folks say “don’t put yourself out there like that if you don’t want yourself out there like that”…I know what you going to say…Well its her choice to dress like that and it give him no right… Well…I’m sorry but this world is very judgmental… I can’t speak for everybody all I can speak for is myself as an individual… And by saying that I try to always give people the benefit of the doubt and not judge… but not everybody is like me… We can’t make up for those who treated you wrong but we can show you that there are some good people out here in the world
Women: Stop talking about the Past and live for the future
Iight… this one is for my ladies…you subconsciously know that all men are different… just like no two women are the same… Why is that some of you guys group all men as ultimately wanting one thing? By being negative your energy can drive a man away… We understand you went through some ill situations but at the same time don’t miss out on a good new thing by a preconceived notion that it’s going to the same as old thing… Again by all means I’m not saying be naïve and gullible… However you don’t have to come across giving someone that approaches you respectfully the cold shoulder… It’s just when some people have said things about you labeling negatively (and you know these thing aren’t true) you shouldn’t take that with you because those people only make up the smallest of the smallest fraction of people that you will deal with in your life… Then again… Are those people perfect angels that told you those negative things? I get categorized all the time about things other people have done in the past… Not all of us have the same motive… Ladies you know who is good for you and who is bad… We all have that sense of being… knowing what is right for us and what is wrong for us… “Like a closed mouth doesn’t get fed, closed minds do not get fed” When it come to how a man should treat a woman… that’s understood the bible talks about how we all should treat one another with the same love that God has for all of us… I do agree women should be respected to the utmost but at the same time ladies need to be more respectful of themselves… The universal rule of thumb is if one wants to be respected, one has to give it… You can’t expect to put out negative energy and get positive back… Sorry it doesn’t work like that… (And how you gonna scream “INDEPENDENT” and the only thing you do for yourself is “PAY” tribute to B.E.T’s “The Game”… Com’on Son!!!!!) Relationships should be based solely off what is presently happening not what the last female or male did…You are trying to build a future not restructure the past… so leave it behind you and let those scars heal because what the last man is lacking the next man will most definitely have...and the same goes for the men with women…
Soooooo to wrap this thing up… We need not to be bonded by our past and respect is definitely the key…Positive Energy is reciprocal. Until the next Blog Think Good Thoughts, Love, Peace and God Bless
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