Sometime we look for understanding in things that aren’t hard to understand. The occasional over analyst is another way of saying it. A brother that I used to reason with told me that things that are meant for you are supposed to be easy with no kind of doubt or thoughts on it. All Natural. Something sounding similar to what I was always told by my dad. Focus on you and everything will fall into place. So many times we find ourselves going through situations thinking it’s for deeper meaning, for example, a young lady gets cheated on by her boyfriend. A really spiritual person would go on to say that, God has a better plan for you and you probably weren’t equally yoked. Well I came to the conclusion that things are what they are. Sometimes there is no deeper meaning behind things. Maybe there were signs that you should have never met that person from the start. Maybe you didn’t pay them any mind because of your own reasons. We’re all guilty of that so don’t feel bad but the warning signs a person gives off aren’t hard to pick up on. In most cases, a person shows you who they are initially. Don’t be blinded by what the body says. 
My personal situation I dated a young lady who was beautiful but we couldn’t hold a conversation. I overlooked that because she was… well beautiful. Equally yoked, for the Christians, yeah we’re of the same religion and actually somewhat alike in some ways. The understanding was clear two shy people don’t mix someone has to be the aggressor. Funny but true. There was no deep meaning behind that. I say that to say this there is no need to search for deeper meaning when it comes to meeting people. They are who they are. The classic question is: Are you willing to accept them and tolerate the things they do and keep it moving? If you are on the quest of searching for deeper meaning search within something that’s meaningful like religion and self. How can you be happy if you’re not happy with yourself? I could sit here all day and go on to tell you my opinionated way of how to be happy but self is the only one who can define ones true happiness. Until next blog stay positive, think good thought always, stay motivated, and God bless…Peace.
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